When I look at any Warhol painting I see something about elaboration – what Derrida called an ‘American’ form of abuse. Warhol’s response to America: not to forget elaboration.

Someone asked me to elaborate on something I’d said today. I politely declined. If someone wants to make more of something I say they need to do it, not me. I can give them a hand, but let’s think about what happens when we elaborate.

Elaboration takes something beyond the point where someone, often the author of an idea, has chosen to leave it. Elaboration is not improvisation, (which I’d be happy to do). When an invitation to elaborate is refused this is usually seen as rather selfish. I think it is anything but selfish to preserve the integrity of something you offered in the first place (not the person asking for an elaboration).

Elaboration is a raw form of something like capitalism, a kind of resource-mining that in psychotherapy runs against the grain of Freud’s fundamental rule.

Rather than ask for an elaboration, offer a response … which you might call an improvisation. In your response you’ll be able to recognise yourself.

Remember also something else Derrida wrote about. Rather than assume that beginning with a question is unproblematic, consider whether initiating conversation is always right.

It’s not always good to talk.