Cocteau, like Picasso, took the line seriously. His mark, undeniably his, a committed gesture: a signature.
I’m not one for football, probably because of everything that surrounds it, but catching up on what happened when some England footballers were unable to score goals in the final of Euro 2020, I feel more contempt than ever for most of our politicians.
What does it say that some very young men commit themselves to a course of action that will mark them for the rest of their lives, never able to shake responsibility for what they do in the name of a game that appears, for a little while, to a lot of people, to mean something, when people like our prime minister seems incapable of ever taking responsibility for decisions that really shape our lives?
Let’s respect people who take responsibility (Saka, Sancho, Rashford and Southgate) and cast off the ones who don’t (Johnson, Patel, Javid and Coffey – and Johnson again: he’s twice as bad). Nothing will improve if it’s administered by cowards and liars.
When I look at any Warhol painting I see something about elaboration – what Derrida called an ‘American’ form of abuse. Warhol’s response to America: not to forget elaboration.
Someone asked me to elaborate on something I’d said today. I politely declined. If someone wants to make more of something I say they need to do it, not me. I can give them a hand, but let’s think about what happens when we elaborate.
Elaboration takes something beyond the point where someone, often the author of an idea, has chosen to leave it. Elaboration is not improvisation, (which I’d be happy to do). When an invitation to elaborate is refused this is usually seen as rather selfish. I think it is anything but selfish to preserve the integrity of something you offered in the first place (not the person asking for an elaboration).
Elaboration is a raw form of something like capitalism, a kind of resource-mining that in psychotherapy runs against the grain of Freud’s fundamental rule.
Rather than ask for an elaboration, offer a response … which you might call an improvisation. In your response you’ll be able to recognise yourself.
Remember also something else Derrida wrote about. Rather than assume that beginning with a question is unproblematic, consider whether initiating conversation is always right.
It’s not always good to talk.
Feeling Stuck?
When you feel stuck you believe that nothing will change. Bad things repeat and the future looks bleak. Other people tell you life will improve but you don’t believe them. You can’t, however much you wish you could.
These pages are about how to get unstuck by doing things differently. Being stuck governs what you believe. Painful, contrary, invalidating feelings rule your mind and lead you to do all kinds of thing to try and get unstuck. (more...)
